diff --git a/modules/nixos/deertopia/slskd.nix b/modules/nixos/deertopia/slskd.nix
index 09b0f7b..5f64f8f 100644
--- a/modules/nixos/deertopia/slskd.nix
+++ b/modules/nixos/deertopia/slskd.nix
@@ -27,7 +27,10 @@ in {
         soulseek.description = ''
           hi }:).  i share my entire media directory, with a good
           amount of non-music stuff.  this account is for a slskd
-          instance i leave running 24/7.
+          instance i leave running 24/7.  apologies in advance if your
+          messages take weeks to reach me.
+
+          don't feel bad about queuing in large batches!
 
           a while back, i reconfigured both my network setup and my
           share directories, forgetting to update them in soulseek.